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Play it cool when calling women for the first timePosted on: March 25, 2013 15:43:41
So, you have been on a date and as far as you are aware, it went quite well, but what do you do next?
Unless you have chanced upon a lady who has taken control of the situation, you have little choice but to put in a potentially-awkward phone call.
The thought of speaking to somebody you barely know is enough to reduce many guys to a crumbling, anxious wreck, and there is always the danger that you will come across as being too eager unless you play things just right.
However, now is not the time for nervousness - not unless you want to be consigned to the lonely hearts club for the rest of your days.
According to dating expert Carlos Xuma, men need to be bold and confident when they make that dreaded call following their first date.
"Even if it really is the first time a guy has ever in his entire life called a woman, he needs to do everything in his power to pull it off and give the impression that he actually calls beautiful women every day and, in fact, has been doing so for years," he remarked.
If you are really lucky, your call might drift through to your potential new partner's answering machine. As long as you have prepared what to say, this can work in your favour.
Mr Xuma believes it is easy to overdo things when you speak to a lady and some men will start stuttering and talking nonsense. This will certainly pull the rug from under any attempts you may have made to act cool.
"Guys who ramble on end up sounding insecure, needy, and like they don't know what they are doing," the dating expert added.
If you are leaving a message, keep it nice and concise. If she calls back, it is a good idea to sort out where you are going to meet before taking a brief interest in her day.
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