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Men should 'hone their conversational skills' when looking for love

Posted on: January 3, 2013 15:58:24

Men should Shy singletons who find it difficult approaching people they find attractive need to hone their conversational skills so they feel relaxed when it comes to dating, one expert has suggested.

Picking up skills to help speak to and attract women can make male UK singles "better and more well-rounded individuals in general", Carlos Xuma, a dating advisor, has claimed.

If the thought of walking over to a stranger on a night out and sparking up a conversation fills you with dread, then make a conscious effort to initiate a discussion in other environments to prepare you for when the time comes to speak to that special someone.

It can begin with baby steps, perhaps making small talk with a stranger or approaching that familiar face from work. By doing so, it can bolster confidence and gain better understanding of how to make that tricky first step when starting a conversation.

Learning to talk to women involves some preparation, Carlos says, and men don't have to quash all alpha male traits and characteristics to appear to be something they're not when introducing themselves.

"An alpha male is not the opposite of being a sensitive, caring guy, either," he says. "But what happens is sometimes men take the role of being that sensitive guy too far and lose all their alpha male traits."

Once that happens, you are likely to enter the "dreaded friend zone", the expert claims and will make it impossible for your potential date to see anything other than companionship.

However, it is important to just be yourself. So, if you are feeling a little anxious, just take a deep breath and think about what you want to say before you approach the person. Head over there confidently and you will win the person over with your charm, wit and captivating conversation.

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